

When the World Gets Under Your Skin | How to Find the Way Back to Yourself
There are times when the world feels much too loud. It gets inside you. The headlines. The fear. The arguments. The suffering. The endless stream of people telling you what is happening, what it means, what you should fear and what you should believe. After a while, it can become hard to know where the world ends and you begin. I know that feeling. I know what it is to realise that I have taken so much in that there is barely any space left inside me that has not been touched
Sep 2710 min read


Breaking the Triangle: Part 2 | When the Scapegoat Learns to Trust What They See
In Part One, we looked at what happens inside the triangle: how the scapegoat can be drawn into competing for their own worth until they become so preoccupied with questioning themselves that they lose sight of who created the hierarchy in the first place. But something changes when the scapegoat finally sees the pattern. They stop looking across the triangle at the person who was chosen over them and begin looking towards the person who taught them there was something to com
Aug 257 min read


Weaponising the Triangle: Part 1 | How the Scapegoat Is Made to Compete for Their Own Worth
When the Teacher Becomes the Lesson I must admit, I basically gave up trying to find someone to mentor me a long time ago. As someone who walks with the scapegoat archetype, finding a teacher brought a whole slew of challenges I had neither anticipated nor wanted. I longed for a teacher in my early spiritual life. You know the saying, when the student is ready, the teacher appears? Well, apparently mine missed the memo. I could feel the calling within my soul to teach, but I
Aug 2414 min read





